Should children grow up surrounded by city life or wide-open country spaces? For parents weighing where to raise their families, the choice can affect everything from outdoor independence to access to activities, friendships and community.
Actor Ben Hollingsworth, known for Netflix’s Virgin River, moved his family out of a major urban centre to give his three children more of the childhood freedom he remembers. Speaking to Fox News, he said, “raising your kids in a small town is just, it’s a luxury.”
Hollingsworth particularly values being able to let his children play outside with greater independence. He explained, “Our kids are actually, we’re able to kind of let them go off and be like, be back at five,” describing a freedom he feels is harder to offer in Los Angeles.
He also prioritizes sports, family hikes and time together outdoors. For Hollingsworth, the decision reflects a desire to build family connections and give his children experiences similar to those he enjoyed growing up.
How Do City Kids and Country Kids Differ?
Growing up in the country can mean more space to explore nature, outdoor play and familiarity with neighbours. However, rural families may face longer drives to school, healthcare and organized activities, depending on where they live.
In cities, children may have easier access to museums, libraries, public transportation, diverse communities and extracurricular programs. A Today’s Parent discussion highlights the trade-offs parents consider, from outdoor freedom and space to convenience and cultural opportunities.
Neither setting guarantees a better childhood. As Maclean’s explores, children’s experiences can differ according to their surroundings, opportunities and daily lives, rather than simply whether they live in a city or rural community.
How Do Young People Feel About City vs. Country Living?
Young people’s preferences often depend on their interests, friendships and sense of belonging. Some may value rural life for its quiet surroundings and outdoor adventures, while others prefer the independence, variety and social opportunities available in urban neighbourhoods.
Research comparing children in urban and rural areas has found that differences in well-being vary across countries and local contexts. That means parents should avoid assuming that one environment automatically makes children happier.
Ultimately, the best place to raise a child is one where their needs are met and they can build meaningful relationships. Parents can help wherever they live by encouraging outdoor play, fostering friendships and making time for activities that broaden their children’s horizons.
