Frog and Toad - Waking Up / The Squash (S1E8)

After a long night's sleep, Toad realizes Frog's been busy without him. Frog helps Toad feel OK about plans not going perfectly.
| Runtime (min) | 23 |
|---|---|
| Air Date | 2023-04-27 |
| Genres | Kids, Animation, Family |
| TV Rating | TV-Y |
| Network(s) | Apple TV |
Storyline
In "Waking Up," Toad emerges from a long sleep to discover that Frog has been awake and productive for quite some time. While Toad was resting, Frog has accomplished various tasks and enjoyed activities on his own. Toad grapples with feelings of being left behind and wonders what he missed during his extended slumber. The segment explores how friends can have different rhythms and schedules while still maintaining their close bond.
In "The Squash," Frog steps in to help Toad navigate disappointment when carefully laid plans don't unfold as expected. Toad has been working on growing a squash and has specific hopes for how things should turn out. When reality doesn't match his vision, Toad becomes frustrated and discouraged. Frog gently guides his friend toward accepting that imperfection is a natural part of life and that outcomes can still be meaningful even when they differ from our original expectations. Through patience and understanding, Frog helps Toad find peace with the way things actually are.
What parents say
Parents have praised "Frog and Toad" for its gentle pacing and emotionally intelligent storytelling that resonates with both children and adults. Many appreciate how the series tackles everyday friendship challenges without relying on conflict-driven plots or loud humor. The show's calm tone and thoughtful dialogue have been noted as refreshing alternatives to more frenetic children's programming.
Parents frequently mention that the series models healthy communication and emotional regulation in ways that feel authentic to young children's experiences. The friendship between Frog and Toad demonstrates how to navigate disappointment, jealousy, and frustration with kindness and patience. Some parents have shared that their children reference lessons from the show when working through their own friendship issues or managing expectations.
Several parents note that the show's quiet, contemplative style may not immediately capture the attention of children accustomed to faster-paced programs, but many report that their kids grow to love the characters and request episodes repeatedly. The series has been particularly appreciated by parents seeking screen time that feels calming rather than overstimulating.
What kids learn
Children learn that friends can have different schedules and energy levels without it affecting the strength of their relationship. When Toad wakes to find Frog has been busy, kids see that feeling left out is normal, but it doesn't mean a friend cares any less. The episode demonstrates that we all move through our days differently, and those differences don't diminish friendship.
The squash segment teaches children how to cope with disappointment when reality doesn't match expectations. Kids observe Toad's frustration when his plans go awry and watch as Frog helps him shift perspective. This models the important skill of flexibility and shows that accepting imperfection doesn't mean giving up or failing—it means adapting to what actually happens rather than clinging to what we hoped would happen.
Throughout both stories, children see examples of patient, supportive friendship. Frog never dismisses Toad's feelings as silly or wrong; instead, he listens and offers gentle guidance. Kids learn that helping a friend through difficult emotions means being present, validating their feelings, and offering perspective without judgment. These episodes reinforce that emotional resilience grows through practice and with the support of caring friends.
Parents' top 5 questions
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| How does the episode handle Toad's feelings about missing out while he was asleep? | The episode validates Toad's feelings of being left behind without making them seem wrong or silly. Frog listens to Toad's concerns and reassures him that their friendship remains strong regardless of different schedules. The story gently shows that feeling left out is normal, but it doesn't have to damage a relationship. Toad learns that friends can have separate experiences and still deeply care about each other. |
| What does the squash story teach about handling plans that don't work out? | The squash segment demonstrates that disappointment is a natural response when expectations aren't met, but it doesn't have to ruin everything. Frog helps Toad see that outcomes can still have value even when they're different from what was planned. Children watch Toad move from frustration to acceptance with Frog's patient support, learning that flexibility and perspective-shifting are skills that can be practiced and developed with help from caring friends. |
| Are there any scary or upsetting moments in this episode? | No, this episode contains no frightening content. The conflicts are entirely emotional and relational—Toad feeling left behind and then disappointed about his squash. The tone remains gentle and supportive throughout both segments. The most intense emotion is Toad's frustration, which is handled calmly and resolved through conversation and friendship. The episode maintains the series' characteristically soothing and reassuring atmosphere. |
| How can I help my child apply the lessons about managing expectations? | After watching, talk with your child about times when things didn't go as planned in their own life. Ask how they felt and what helped them feel better, drawing parallels to how Frog supported Toad. When your child faces similar disappointments, you can reference the episode and ask what Frog might say. Practicing phrases like "It's okay that it's different" or "We can still enjoy this" helps children internalize the flexibility the episode models. |
| Is this episode appropriate for children who struggle with perfectionism? | Yes, this episode can be particularly helpful for children who have rigid expectations or difficulty with things going differently than planned. The squash story directly addresses perfectionism by showing that imperfect outcomes are acceptable and normal. Watching Toad work through his disappointment with Frog's gentle guidance provides a model for how to be kinder to oneself when reality doesn't match the ideal picture in one's mind. |
Writing
Directing
| Season # | Episode # | Episode Name |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | 1 | Frog and Toad try to resist a batch of yummy cookies. Frog finds out Toad has never gotten mail before, so he writes Toad a letter. |
| 1 | 2 | Toad's delivery of refreshing ice cream to Frog turns into a melty disaster. Frog and Toad go to great lengths to find a button. |
| 1 | 3 | Frog wants Toad to spend the first day of spring with him. To prove they're brave, Frog and Toad set off to climb Mount Gloom. |
| 1 | 4 | Toad thinks the seeds in his new garden are afraid to grow. Frog wants to bake a cake for Toad, even though he doesn't know how. |
| 1 | 5 | Frog and Toad attempt to fly their homemade kite despite some doubting Robins. Frog handles being lost differently than Toad does. |
| 1 | 6 | Toad goes on an epic quest to find a story to tell an unwell Frog. When Toad loses his to-do list, he's stumped about what to do next. |
| 1 | 7 | Toad is excited about his new shoes—until they cause nothing but trouble. Frog aims to rescue Toad's fancy jacket from a lonely closet. |
| 1 | 8 | After a long night's sleep, Toad realizes Frog's been busy without him. Frog helps Toad feel OK about plans not going perfectly. |
| 1 | 9 | Frog gets sidetracked while running a last-minute errand on Christmas Eve, causing Toad to wonder about where his friend could be. |
| Season # | Episode # | Episode Name |
|---|---|---|
| 2 | 1 | Toad feels left out when Frog gives all his attention to his amazing, most perfect stick. Frog helps Toad tidy up. |
| 2 | 2 | Toad struggles to find a gift fit for a fancy box. Frog gives Toad the courage to go sledding. |
| 2 | 3 | Frog reassures a swimsuit-shy Toad that he doesn’t look funny at all. Frog and Toad secretly plan to surprise each other. |
| 2 | 4 | Thoughts of chores piling up make it hard for Toad to relax. Frog’s birthday gift for Toad goes over well except for a “small” issue. |
| 2 | 5 | Frog and Toad set off on a search for spring. Toad steps in as a last-minute performer but runs into trouble when he can’t see Frog. |
| 2 | 6 | Frog convinces Toad to go camping, but the forest creates quite the disturbance. Frog hopes his spooky story gets a reaction from Toad. |
| 2 | 7 | Frog and Toad try to reunite a lost umbrella with its owner. Vacation plans hit a snag when Toad worries about what to pack. |
| 2 | 8 | A picnic dinner stretches well past bedtime for a celestial sighting. Toad comes to the rescue after Frog’s roof springs a leak. |
| 2 | 9 | Toad sets out to pair Frog with the ideal instrument. Frog leaves a note that stirs up a flurry of feelings for Toad. |
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